Book : Teen-proofing Fostering Responsible Decision Making..

-Titulo Original : Teen-proofing Fostering Responsible Decision Making In Your Teenager (volume 10)

-Fabricante :

Andrews McMeel Publishing

-Descripcion Original:

John Rosemond is a renowned child psychologist who has helped millions of parents learn to raise their children and remain sane.In Teen-Proofing, now available in paperback, he tackles the challenges of raising a teenager with his trademark user-friendly, humorous, and commonsense style. Rosemond lays out a perfectly sound and logical case for recognizing the realities of the teen-parent relationship, forming the foundation, and parenting with the Long Rope Principle. In short, the author demonstrates how Mom and Dad can avoid the pitfalls of becoming dictatorial Control Freaks, skirt the potholes of turning into permissive Wimps, and enjoy the freedom and rewards of parenting in a controlled (but not controlling) and relaxed manner. Teenagers, Rosemond readily admits, can be a challenge. But infusing young adults with a sense of personal responsibility, then showing them the results of good and bad choices, is a goal every parent can achieve. Review Parents can protect toddlers--with their maximum mobility and minimum logic--by pasting plastic on electrical outlets and putting poisons out of reach. But protecting teenagers is not so simple, says family psychologist and author of Raising a Nonviolent Child John Rosemond. Short of solitary confinement, you cant guarantee that a teen wont use drugs, shoplift, drink or crash the car. In the final analysis, teens must protect themselves. Rosemonds Teen-Proofing provides parents with tough-love strategies for managing teens so they make self-protective, rather than self-destructive, decisions. Many parents will recognize the error of their ways in Rosemonds portraits of parents as micro-managers who try to control their children and wimps who let their children control them. He offers a compelling alternative by urging parents to be mentors, who realize they can control the parent-child relationship, but not the child. The author explores critical parent-teen issues including curfews, cash, cars, and cohorts--detailing an approach that gives teenagers a long rope to make their own mistakes and also offers creative consequences to encourage responsible decision making. The author offers smart and seasoned advice--from coping with middle school tweenagers to understanding why teens are vulnerable and how the culture diminishes a parents influence. Yet he undermines his clarity with snide asides about mental health professionals and one too many smug and self-congratulatory examples of his own parenting of a son and daughter. These distractions are unnecessary; the books unconventional and provocative suggestions will speak volumes to parents of teens. --Barbara Mackoff About the Author ?John Rosemond is a family psychologist who has directed mental-health programs and been in full-time private practice working with families and children. Since 1990, he has devoted his time to speaking and writing. Rosemonds weekly syndicated parenting column now appears in some 250 newspapers, and he has written 15 best-selling books on parenting and the family. He is one of the busiest and most popular speakers in the field, giving more than 200 talks a year to parent and professional groups nationwide. He and his wife of 39 years, Willie, have two grown children and six well-behaved grandchildren.